Today…was, perhaps, one of THE MOST “go down in history” type days…of my entire life! A bi-racial President…and new White House Resident..HOT-TAY!! A big WOOT!! Very exciting stuff!! Congratulations to Mr. President and his beautiful family.
Now…for waaaaayyyyy more pressing matters.
I’m launching a new website. With the help of our extremely web-design gifted…and non-computer illiterate friend, Judith Shakespeare…who designed the place. And my partner in crime Jodie…who financed the operation. We will be presenting to you…something tres cool…and exceptionally SEXY!!
So…while I have your interest and curiosity peaked…right? I do, right? Say you’re curious. Say it’s peaked.
Lemme ask you this…
How do you keep your love life with your significant other…well…SPICY. Ok…maybe spicy isn’t the right word, right? Is ALIVE more appropriate?
In any event…
What type of things do you try? Or do you want to try?
I REALLY need the feedback.
So even you lurkers…who NEVER say a word…
but stop by here every day…
let me have a glimpse into your bedroom.
Share with me some of your secrets…
and your likes. And dislikes.
I promise…it’s all in the name of research!! I won’t tell a soul. And we will ALL be sworn to secrecy!!
And then…in a few days…you will find out…exactly why…I am asking this!
Colleen - Mommy Always Wins says
Alright – you asked, here ya go! Real, brutal, buck nekkid honesty.
Sometimes we just do it for the sake of having sex more than once a month.
Wild, right? Yeah, I know!
On these nights, there’s not much foreplay, and we’re never cuddlers, but the physical act really makes you feel closer and reminds you of why you’re together, you know? (I mean, who doesn’t say “I love you” afterward, right?)
Sex for the sake of sex and all the good that comes along with it. (HA! I said “come”) That’s our secret.
This would be perfect for my first ever Mr. Linky Two Centss session! Feel free to ask for some two cents on romance! Hugs, Jen
As far as my two cents on romance goes…
We have had to redefine it. We have learned that romance goes beyond candles, roses and time alone. We are all about those stolen kisses and soft touches we snag throughout the day.
Anything out of the ordinary! We like to try new toys, massage oils, lingerie, erotic foreplay items.. You know- fun stuff! Of course, our sex life isn’t lacking anyway, but I think surprises certainly add to the excitement once in a while!
the planet of janet says
when your husband makes odd statements at the dinner table about “two-hump chumps” … and i write about it on the internet …
well, i think it’s fair to say that we HAVE no secrets in our bedroom.
Well. the buzzing penis ring that I just got from eden fantasies was good. He also just bought both the Kim Cattrall books – our sex life has been in the toilet – or the diaper pail for …. honestly? a couple years. We’re working on getting back on track.
You know, I think this might sound a bit rudimentary, but I think an important part of the relationship is continuing to date. I’m not copping out on the ‘real’ question, I remember answering it before…
I think you should sell anal lube and butt plugs. Ever since I let my husband go down my Hershey Highway our sex life has been wonderful.
oh this one made me laugh.. our secret?
well my hubby kinda made every word associated in bed.. from abcs to animals to tv station.. like if we are talking about alphabet.. he would suddenly say.. will you alphabet me? and I was like.. whaat!?! and we ended up laughing so hard and doing the alphabet at bed LOL
He gets when he’s horny and I’m not and then he knows he owes me big time when I AM in the mood. Plus, men who get lots of BJs are happy men. Happy men help more. More help means less stress for me. Then I’m happier. Happy people have better sex.
Well, that’s my philosophy, anyway.
We talk dirty, really, really, really dirty. I think it really is an emotional thing. My sex life is better now than it has ever been because I love myself, my body, my life, and I know I have a partner who respects me as a strong, confident, mother, so it makes me want to get my freak on. I can’t wait to see where any of this is going.
OHmommy's son says
Reading this post makes me blush out loud.
I can’t wait to see what you are doing.
Honestly, it doesn’t take much to get my guy in the mood. All I have to do is say something about underwear bunching or something and he is good to go. Now, I’ve had to make that effort to do that and after loosing some weight it is easier to feel a little attractive. Confidence all the way around is a good thing. For him, stockings and fancy underwear are good things.
At 35 weeks pregnant, not much is fun right now. That said, an open mind is the best thing to have in the bedroom and out.
Karen MEG says
Whew, are things hot in here?
Um, we tend to not like the bed much. We save that for sleeping.
That’s it for now…unless you feed me a bottle of pinot noir …I am very intrigued…