I went out last night. Yep. With one of my oldest friends. It was great. You guys should’ve joined us!!
We hit the casino. Well…mostly…we stayed in the martini bar. Sipping on oh so delish bright blue martinis…and one pomegranate martini. But we had fun chatting. And we did play video poker where I put in 20 bucks and left with $75! Too bad that I had to use that to pay the sitter!
My hubby…he was out doing some sort of male bonding, getting drunk, playing carda and camping out thing with some of his co-worker friends…and my friends hubby. Gee…wish I could be there. I’m sure that, wherever they are…smells really fresh right now!!
And I know. Without ANY doubt. When my husband comes home. Sometime this morning or early afternoon. He’s going to be exhausted. And want to sleep all day.
You wanna know what I say?
FUCK HIM!!
Just because he “slept” out. It DOES NOT mean that he got less sleep than I did. Because…I rolled in around 2 am. And…because my husband wasn’t home…I had a hard time sleeping. I get scared so…don’t laugh at me!! I finally fell asleep around 4…only to be awakened at 5:15. That is A.M to you!! Been up since. Yep. Great, isn’t it?
So again I say…FUCK HIM!!
There…I feel much better.
While I was NOT sleeping last night, I was thinking about some stuff. And…I actually remember some of the stuff I was thinking about. Which means…I can actually post it. It’s a miracle.
I want to know from you…my two friends that still love me…if you’re even here anymore…
Do you tell your spouse EVERYTHING? Does your spouse know pretty much EVERYTHING there is to know about you?
If someone tells you NOT to tell your spouse…are you going to anyway?
Would you take your spouse back if they cheated?
Would you ever cheat?
I’m sure I had more questions but…I just can’t seem to remember them. Oh well…if I think of them…I’ll be sure to let you know!!
Hey…
Have an awesome weekend!!!
XOXO
I tell Hubs most everything, but if a friend asked me not to tell him a secret, I’d keep that confidence. (I’d just blog about it… Hahaha) As to cheating… I saw what that did to my mom when my dad was unfaithful. Hubs knows how I feel too. No, I wouldn’t cheat and I wouldn’t take him back if he did. End. Dot. Period.
Wow. Just jump right in with the hard stuff!
Do you tell your spouse EVERYTHING? Does your spouse know pretty much EVERYTHING there is to know about you?
No. When you get married at age 40, there is a whole lot of sordid history that is no longer relevant. He knows most of it. I wouldn’t keep anything from him if he ever asked about it, but I don’t see the need to bring up ugly situations from my 20s out of the clear blue.
If someone tells you NOT to tell your spouse…are you going to anyway?
I have never had that happen. Yet. It’s a small town. Because I’m at home and not in an office, I’m generally the last to know anything anyway.
Would you take your spouse back if they cheated?
This is tougher. I think it would depend on why he cheated. Not that I see him ever doing that. We’re both too tired.
Would you ever cheat?
No. I divorced my first husband rather than cheat. (Actually it wasn’t that simple. The divorce was inevitable – it just needed that final push.)
Does that help AT ALL?
No?
I didn’t think so.
*sigh*
Get some sleep.
Cheating? Deal breaker. Unfaithful and I’ll go Lorena on his nads.
Just slipping these teeny questions in there, eh? Too funny!
What were they again?
My hubby basically knows everything about me… since we started dating. Anything before, only as it comes up. Not that I remember much as we’ve been together over 22 years now.
If someone asked me not to say anything to my spouse, I guess obviously it would depend if it impacted his safety or those of loved ones etc.. But other than that he wouldn’t need to know.
The cheating thing, I wouldn’t cheat. Would I take him back if he cheated … I’d be inclined to say no.
Steven knows pretty much everything about me – even the stuff most ppl wouldn’t tell their own husband. Like, everything pretty much.
And, if he cheated now? No. Our relationship couldn’t handle that right now…
hmm….I tell Dave pretty much everything…I can’t think of anything I have not told him. If I was told not to tell him, I wouldn’t tell him. I would not take him back if he cheated, I would have a hard time trusting him again. I don’t have to worry about that though…he is very moral and has absolutely no respect for guys who cheat.
I tell my husband everything, but I can’t say he knows everything about me. There are things about my life before him that he just doesn’t need to know.
As for cheating . . . although I totally believe that people can heal, forgive and never, ever do it again, for me . . . the constant doubt and wonder would kill me.
So, yeah. It would have to be over . . . for my own sanity.
Hey, yeah I already see him not coming home, this would make
me mad and I would think like somethings up…. and my ex did
that to me and it was the beginning of the end…….. he was cheating
also…. and who knows what else………..
Tell him everything? Does he tell you everything.. doubt it.
Nobody is perfect and it is a matter of what you are willing
to live with….. I could go on for hours………
Yes I would be concerned by what you say majorly!
XXXXX OOOOOO you need it girl!
Yes, I tell Josh everything. Absolutely everything pretty much. If someone tells me a secret of their own, and they ask me not to tell, then yes, I WILL keep their secret. But pretty much everything else Josh knows. He knows everything about about me.
And if I cheated, yes I would tell him.
And he HAS cheated. And yes, obviously I did take him back. You always thing you won’t, until it happens to you. Every situation is different, every relationship different, and every woman different. It’s hard to say what you’d personally truly do until you’re actually in the situation.
OH, and I can’t sleep when Josh isn’t here either. I wake up every 1-2 hours wondering why he isn’t home yet. I always call him and ask him to come home.
(Right now as I’m writing this, he’s singing “I’m Too Sexy” by Right Said Fred and dancing around lifting up his shirt at me. He’s such a dork sometimes).
~ I do tell my husband everything, he is truly my best friend. He knows me better than anyone else. My first husband though, total opposite situation.
~If someone tells me not to tell him, I’ll probably run tell him even faster. lol
~I did take my first husband back after cheating, but only for a very short time. I realized it was not going to work out and sent him on his way. I don’t think I’d ever do that again, I learned.
~I truly don’t think I could/would ever cheat.
You all ready know all my feelings on this and where I stand, but I still wanted you to know that I am still here.
cheating is a deal breaker for both of us.
and do i tell him everything? no, but not because he couldn’t or shouldn’t know. it’s because he has no gatekeeper on his mouth!
As a guy, if I found out 100% that my wife cheated, she would be gone, dismissed, divorced, and FIRED! And if I got got cheating, she would do the same!. You can forgive….you can’t forget!