I have a 4 word sentence that has been flowing through my mind today.
A cliche, really…
Let sleeping dogs lay…
That’s it. What I’ve been hearing myself whisper in my obsessed head…
Let sleeping dogs lay…
So, I’m going to.
My husband is now, officially…off the hook. I really don’t think it will happen again. I really don’t think he’d chance. it. If I’m wrong, I’m wrong. But for now…I’m just going to let it go.
We decided last night that, we need to work on us. That we are both very stressed. And, the stress is starting to elbow it’s way into our marriage. Big Time!
Therapy…here we come!!!
But for now, I’m off to watch my 12 year old son play in his baseball game. His team isn’t very good but…they sure look adorable in their baseball uniforms!
Have a wonderful day!
xoxo
As you should… but even sleeping dogs sometimes have one eye open. 🙂
No really, smart move and I’m wishing you the best through this!
Good luck with this strategy. {{Hugs}} to you.
Hope it works out for you. 🙂
I think it’s great you guys are taking the steps to work on your relationship. I think that will help more than anything else!!
My husband and I went to therapy 6 years ago. We were both really stressed about things going on in our lives. It was a god sent and we are celebrating our 11th anniversary today! Good luck to you!
At least you’re not waiting til the dog is dead. 🙂
I think as long as you’re trying to work on things, you have to try to let it go. It can’t keep popping up all the time, ya know? Not healthy. Good luck!
Stress is not good. I don’t like stress too. All the best to you, Mel.
I agree with letting sleeping dogs lay.. with one eye open.
I also agree with therapy.
Good luck (sincerely) for the both of you. I hope it all works out for the better.
((HUGS))
Good for you, and him too. Good luck, and enjoy the baseball games.
Good for you. That’s good that you both are on the same page now. Stress sucks and can break a relationship and quick!